If you can’t communicate, your not going to get to far in your vanilla life same applies to your BDSM lifestyle relationships.
Without opening and continuing dialog you will only be able to guess what the other is feeling, and thinking about.
You need to be able to communicate openly without judgements in terms of your curiosities, wants, desires, limits, and safe words.
Don’t be afraid to ask questions to a potential Dom or Mistress. Don’t let them make you feel inferior. Your submission is a gift that you are willingly giving to them so don’t tolerate any disrespect from them.
Through communication you build trust, loyalty, and respect. Without these, you will have nothing to build a solid relationship on.
Be honest and truthful in your communication. Make time to discuss the good and the bad. Not everyday is going to be wine and roses. Keep that channel open so you can work on building the trust and resolve issues, and enjoy each other in the lifestyle you want.
Let me hear from you and your thoughts on this.