BDSM

Fear Play. Another BDSM Fetish

Fear play is anything sexual in a activity involving the use of fear to create sexual arousal, and the release of adrenaline triggered by a terrified mental state. Unlike with endorphines released through sexual pleasure.

If you’re thinking that you might not have experienced fear play yet, you just might be wrong as fear play runs along the lines of edging.

As you my know edge play is in the category of activities with higher physical and psychological risk. I don’t recommend anyone getting into fear play or any extreme play without doing your research first or you have a long time partner that you trust a 110 percent.

There are a few levels of fear play from soft to extreme. There should always be communication and boundaries set before any play.

One of the most important things you must know about your partner is, do they have any real phobias? They may be able to handle a plastic spider placed on there bodies, but it another game having a live spider placed on there bodies. Me? Personally, I would have a dying duck fit then I would pass out, Lol

So HARD limit with phobias.

With fear play can be extreme and can cause traumatic risk, so always safety first.

I do recommend blindfolding your partner while spanking them, then pause only to start again or surprise them in a different way that comes to mind.

I remember a client of mine that enjoyed fear play. I cuffed and blindfolded on the Saint Andrews Cross. Yes naked. I stated to him that a guest would be there to help me with the session. As I walked over to the door and knocked he began to sweat and his face flushed

I opened the door knowing no one was there but he didn’t know that. (Yes very wicked of me). As I closed the door I stated that they couldn’t communicate with my client only I would.

My clients breathing became heavier, his body sweaty and he showed excitement by his arousal.

My pleasure came from seeing his body respond to my touch as I grabbed his shaft and squeezed then whispered in his ear it’s mine or the way my flogger licks and stings with every hit to the body.

Have you experienced fear play? Please leave your comments if you have or your fantasies about it.

Miss Scarlett Red. Kisses

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