An Emotional Manipulator is one who tries to gain power and control through Lies, and Sneaky Underhanded Deceptive Tactics, to change the thinking, behavior, and perception of another person.
Emotional Manipulator’s are Master’s at deception. Often subtle manipulation over time, there goal is to gain your trust and flip the balance of control in there favor. You won’t know what hit you if you don’t know what to look for.
You only have to deal once with a Emotional Manipulator to reconize who they are next time.
There hidden agenda, is to establish a baseline of your weaknesses and strength’s. They will do this through general and probing questions. They will also share openly about themselves and their home life and will expect you to do the same.
The Emotional Manipulator, love’s to play the victim. The purpose of playing the victim is to gain pity, sympathy, or compassion. They exploit the other person’s good well, guilty conscience, and protective instincts. They will target the other person this way because it achieve”s holding the other person responsible for there happiness, success, failures, but above all they have to be validated at all times.
The seduction game is one of the favorite’s to play. They will use flattery, charm and tell you what you want to hear. They know all to well how to stroke other person’s ego.
For themselves tho they need to be validated. There never happy with there bodies. They usually self medical diagnosis themselves. There jealous of others you spend time with and will want to ruin you for having another relationship. They will do anything to keep you to please you. If there married especially, they will bring on how bad that relationship is so you feel sorry for them which is 9 times out of 10 a charade.
They are Master’s at leveraging your guilt to their advantage. If you try to help them with there marriage relationship they will turn it back on you. Ex: you don’t understand their relationship. Your setting unreasonable expectations to help them and it’s your fault for upsetting them.
Emotional Manipulator’s have little or no accountability for themselves. They can and will stop talking with you for a period even ghost you so you chase after them to talk them down to come back, which was there plan in the first place. They are controlling you by manipulation and you don’t see it.
How to handle a Emotional Manipulator you may ask? It can be difficult to come up with the courage, but you most start to distance yourself from that kind of person. The Emotional Manipulator will not change but move on to the next victim. They will blame it on you because they don’t feel worthy enough by you. They will push all your buttons to make you feel pity and quilt for them. But you have to take a step back, get control and make a plan. Recognize the situation.
Miss Scarlett Red. Kisses