In a D/s relationship, there is power exchange and control. This is where one person (Dom) is in control in the D/s relationship, while the other person (sub) has the power through safe words and can stop a session by using them. The Dom has been given the control over the submissive only after the… Continue reading Self value, self worth, power in a D/s relationship
This massage is erotic, sexual, and personal between two people. It's not synonymous with "fingering". This massage is all about your partner's enjoyment and pleasure, and to bring you closer as a couple. First off set the mood for her, by lightning some of her favorite candles and music. Secondly you will want to place… Continue reading Erotic Pussy Massage
I wanted to share what I'm thankful for this time of year, as most of us in the United States gather together as friends and family for Thanksgiving. Although I live far away from my family, I'm thankful that I have the opportunity to stay in touch with them, either through texting, messaging, etc. I… Continue reading Being Thankful
Collar's hold different meanings to a Dominant and their submissive in the BDSM community. They symbolize the D/s relationship and regardless of the collar's function, are to be taken very seriously. With the internet, it has allowed the curious to find sites and participate in casual or anonymous D/s relationships online and collaring without guard… Continue reading Collar’s and being Collared. There is a difference.
Definition: CBT Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, ball busting, genital flogging, genital bondage, or tickle torture. It may equally consist of the use of cock harnesses, testicle cuffs, parachutes, prolonged stimulation (teasing), metal… Continue reading CBT
Have you ever been asked how you got started in the BDSM lifestyle? I'm sure most of us have been asked that question at some point. I know I have been asked many times in the twenty years that I've been in the BDSM lifestyle either by friends, people at events, or at BDSM classes… Continue reading My Dom