Definition: CBT Cock and ball torture (CBT) is a sexual activity involving torture of the male genitals. This may involve directly painful activities, such as wax play, genital spanking, ball busting, genital flogging, genital bondage, or tickle torture. It may equally consist of the use of cock harnesses, testicle cuffs, parachutes, prolonged stimulation (teasing), metal… Continue reading CBT
Have you ever been asked how you got started in the BDSM lifestyle? I'm sure most of us have been asked that question at some point. I know I have been asked many times in the twenty years that I've been in the BDSM lifestyle either by friends, people at events, or at BDSM classes… Continue reading My Dom
I was asked a few days ago on what my thoughts were on how to release a submissive in a D/s relationship. This is a short version on my thoughts. I will post more on this subject in another post that will go into more detail. Releasing a submissive for whatever the reason can and… Continue reading Releasing a Submissive in a BDSM relationship
Aftercare is attention you give to your partner after an intense sexual experience or after regular vanilla sex. Cuddling and talking about your sexual experience can and will bring you closer in your relationship. By being able to communicate what you liked and didn't like can make for more an even hotter experience the next… Continue reading Aftercare
Fear play is anything sexual in a activity involving the use of fear to create sexual arousal, and the release of adrenaline triggered by a terrified mental state. Unlike with endorphines released through sexual pleasure. If you're thinking that you might not have experienced fear play yet, you just might be wrong as fear play… Continue reading Fear Play. Another BDSM Fetish
Fake: A person who alters there personality to fit in with other people, or groups. I'm sure some of us have came across a fake Dominate, or have heard stories from others about them in the BDSM lifestyle. These Dom/Domme's intentionally misrepresent themselves to manipulate submissives for there personal sexual needs. They don't care or… Continue reading The Other Dom/Domme. Fakes, Poser, Liar, predator.