Aftercare is attention you give to your partner after an intense sexual experience or after regular vanilla sex. Cuddling and talking about your sexual experience can and will bring you closer in your relationship. By being able to communicate what you liked and didn't like can make for more an even hotter experience the next… Continue reading Aftercare
Fear play is anything sexual in a activity involving the use of fear to create sexual arousal, and the release of adrenaline triggered by a terrified mental state. Unlike with endorphines released through sexual pleasure. If you're thinking that you might not have experienced fear play yet, you just might be wrong as fear play… Continue reading Fear Play. Another BDSM Fetish
Fake: A person who alters there personality to fit in with other people, or groups. I'm sure some of us have came across a fake Dominate, or have heard stories from others about them in the BDSM lifestyle. These Dom/Domme's intentionally misrepresent themselves to manipulate submissives for there personal sexual needs. They don't care or… Continue reading The Other Dom/Domme. Fakes, Poser, Liar, predator.
Like any space in your home, why not have a dedicated space for your private playroom. How nice it would be to have everything in one space, where you and your partner, Dom or sub could enjoy your kink play. Things to think about while planning your playroom: 1- Available Space 2- Color and Design… Continue reading Building your playroom
Below is part two of that good reading, again not about a male submissive, but nevertheless totally applicable as it all happen to us at some stage. Good reading... If you have not read Part one, please do so : Part One - A week of Punishment Everyone still with me? If you haven’t read part… Continue reading Sharing a Story: A Week of Punishment (Part two)
Below is part one of a good reading, not about a male submissive, but nevertheless totally applicable as it all happen to us at some stage. Good reading... I’ve been promising you another story and ever since I did those two posts about ‘sexy versus discipline and how to do both’ I’ve been thinking about… Continue reading Sharing a Story: A Week of Punishment (part one)
As a Mistress, I see a lot of "down there", and I would like to share my view on it. First there is no right or wrong doings, I mean natural or slick. It is up to you and do not read me wrong, I was talking to women here 😉 Now for the subs,… Continue reading “DOWN THERE” Grooming