Rules of Engagement

Just so we’re clear…

It is important to Me that we have a mutually enjoyable experience together, in order for that to occur there need to be some ground rules set, along with what you can expect from Me and our session, so make sure you study this page well and learn.

Before you Reserve your appointment-

  • I request all new slaves to send an introduction email or fill out My online questionnaire before I will accept a call from you. mistressunny@gmail.com, although slaves I have sessioned with before are permitted to call Me directly.

  • I prefer 1 day notice for all appointments from new slaves but at times can offer same day with 6 hours notice if I have seen you on a regular basis.

  • I reserve the right to request a small deposit at my own discretion, this could be dependent on if you are a new client, under a specific age or dependent on your session type. Deposits ARE always refundable in the event that I have to cancel our appointment. Deposits are typically NOT going to be required for existing slaves I have met with previously.

  • I am an exclusive/low volume-high quality Fem Domme and typically do not book Myself more then 6 appointments a week. Make sure you are sincere and certain you want an appointment with Me before contacting Me. If you are nervous and unsure I do offer in person consultations, coffee, date and Lunch/Dinner dates as alternative options if you wish to meet prior to deciding if you wish to relinquish control to Me.  Do NOT waste My time; I assure you I will not waste yours.

  • I typically prefer to see those over the age of thirty (30) but may consider slaves between the ages of 21 to 29 with a small deposit.
    I will NOT consider those under the age of 21.

On the Phone with Scarlett Red:

After you have emailed an introduction to Me:

  • I will not speak to you until you have either filled out My online questionnaire or sent a proper email introduction telling Me what you’re looking for in your session, etc.  My contact page  indicates what I require via email, however the Questionnaire is preferred.

  • When we speak I want to remind you to listen, answer My questions and to be respectful. Do NOT Dominate our conversation.

  • I will always give you a moment to freely ask Me respectful questions.

  • Do NOT use graphic language over the phone and do NOT request illegal activity or I will disconnect our call.

  • The only purpose to call Me AFTER you have sent your introduction email is to book an appointment, if you feel the need to chat Me up I do offer phone consultations (information is on My sessions page).

  • I will screen you over the phone, please keep in mind that I am a professional and value My reputation, I never retain personal information and value discretion and privacy.

Now that you have an appointment:

  • I never permit intoxication or drug use during our session.

  • In the event that you can not keep your appointment I request you call (not email or text) as soon as you know you can not keep your appointment, in the event that you can not cancel with a day notice I will require a $100 cancellation fee. If you no call/No show I will require your session to be paid in full or you will be blacklisted.

  • Make sure you follow any instructions I give you prior to your appointment.

General policies:

  • I do not offer any sexual services or nudity, so do not ask for it! If I choose to peel off any clothing that will be MY CHOICE not yours.

  • Do NOT attempt to negotiate or haggle My donations for My sessions it is rude and any attempt of this I will instantly black list you with no chance of ever meeting Me. This includes bartering or offering me gift cards as a form of payment, if you do not get paid for your job in gift cards then why should I? However if you wish to get Me a gift card as an actual gift that would be acceptable.

  • I am very discreet, this means I do not discuss you with others EVER nor do I retain personal information and I request you show the same respect in discretion for Me, this means not discussing our session with others and not discussing anything personal we shared in session.

  • In the event that you pay a deposit, please keep in mind this is not refundable if you cancel or no show for your appointment, your deposit is however fully refundable if I have to cancel our sessions. I will require your deposit the same day you reserve your appointment.

  • Deposits range from $50 to $100 unless otherwise noted on My site and I typically request deposits from those under 30, new slaves or your session type/requests.

  • If you cancel a session there is a cancellation fee of $100 if you do not provide a days notice, otherwise you will only lose your deposit/retainer.

  • If you cancel after confirming your session (usually 2 hours before your session) you will be requested to pay for your session in full and will be permitted to reschedule with-in a reasonable time for only a small re-booking fee.  (If you have questions about this let Me know).

  • Failure to comply with My cancellation policies will conclude in Me blacklisting you from further sessions with Myself or any partners I work with.

Expectations:  

  • Expect to meet with an outspoken Dominant Woman who will respect your boundaries but push your buttons.  (In a good way).

  • Expect to receive a safe word when you arrive for your session.

  • Expect Me to take the time to talk to you when you arrive for our session prior to play, this first 10 to 15 minutes is important for Me to feel you through, I tend to go with the flow and slowly go naturally into My sessions until I get to know you better.

  • I dress differently from latex, leather, lingerie, corsets, heels, boots, etc. If you have a specific clothing request you must make it with a days notice, if I do not have a specific article you have a Fetish for then you may purchase it for Me and bring it to Me.  Otherwise I will wear what I want to wear.  (I do NOT accept requests for nude or partially nude).

  • In public, you can expect Me to always be a lady as well as discreet, I always dress appropriately if you choose to meet Me in public.

  • Expect Me to communicate to you completely during our session, I am not a “quiet” Domme who just goes through the motions, I love to talk dirty to My submissives.

Now Prepare yourself for an AMAZING session.

your Superior,

Scarlett Red